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URL:https://www.uucpa.org/events/difficult-conversations/
SUMMARY:Difficult Conversations
DESCRIPTION:Difficult Conversations  \n\n\n\nDate: Sunday\, Oct 15\nTime: 1
 2:30-2 pm\nLocation: Fireside Room\nPresenter: Susan Owicki\nContact: Kay 
 Brown (kay_b@uucpa.org) Registration: Not required\n\nDifficult conversati
 ons usually involve high stakes and strong emotions. All parties are likel
 y to feel vulnerable\, and that can trigger a “fight or flight” reacti
 on. The “fight” mode can lead to angry escalation\, and the “flight
 ” mode can lead to withdrawal. Feelings are likely to be hurt. Sometimes
  it seems that having the conversation and keeping silent are equally impo
 ssible.\n\nThis class will introduce an approach developed by the Harvard 
 Negotiation Project. It involves shifting our goal from getting our own wa
 y to inviting the other person to join us in figuring things out. When we 
 do this\, we may find our own opinions changing at the same time the other
  person becomes more open to our viewpoint. We may be able to discover a r
 esolution that neither of us could have created alone.\n\n\n\n 
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